Counting the Cost: Helping Others Find Freedom
Approaching prayer and spiritual warfare with humility, maturity, and dependence on Christ.
Helping another person find freedom in Christ is a serious and joyful calling. It is not a status, a title, or a special class of Christian — it is service. Before any of us steps toward that service, Jesus calls us to count the cost, and the cost is nothing less than our whole life following Him.
1. Christ Is the Deliverer
For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.
1 John 3:8 (KJV)
The one who sets captives free is Jesus Christ. He came to destroy the works of the devil, to forgive sins, to heal the brokenhearted, and to loose the chains of the oppressed (Luke 4:18). Any ministry that helps others find freedom is simply joining what Christ is already doing. We do not produce freedom by a technique; we point people to the Deliverer. Keeping this clear guards us from pride and from treating prayer as a formula.
2. The Cost of Following Jesus
And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?
Luke 14:27-28 (KJV)
In its original context, Luke 14:25-33 is about the cost of discipleship — the cost of following Jesus Himself. Jesus had just told the crowds that whoever does not renounce all that he has cannot be His disciple, and whoever does not bear his cross and come after Him cannot be His disciple. The 'count the cost' teaching is about renouncing all we have to belong to Him. The original meaning concerns every disciple, not a specialized ministry role.
3. Applying That Principle to Ministry
If we apply the 'count the cost' principle to helping others find freedom, we must say plainly that this is application, not the original meaning of Luke 14. The application is sound: serving others spiritually is not a casual thing. It asks for a life already surrendered to Christ, willing to bear the cross, willing to be inconvenienced, misunderstood, and spent for others. But the passage calls us first to be disciples of Jesus — and only out of that discipleship do we serve.
4. Character Before Gifting
This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. A bishop then must be blameless...
1 Timothy 3:1-2 (KJV)
When Scripture describes those who lead and serve among God's people, it emphasizes character before it emphasizes gifting. The qualifications in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 are about maturity, self-control, humility, a faithful home, and a good reputation. The same principle applies here: God is far more concerned with the kind of person we are becoming than with how dramatic our ministry appears.
5. Serving Rather Than Seeking Status
Whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister: and whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
Mark 10:43-45 (KJV)
There is no elite class of Christians in the kingdom of God. The greatest is the servant. Helping others find freedom is not a path to spiritual superiority; it is a path to the towel and the basin. If we begin to think of ourselves as a special class above other believers, we have already left the posture of Christ.
6. Know the Word
And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
Ephesians 6:17 (KJV)
The Word of God is the sword of the Spirit. If we want to help people under the enemy's lies, we must know the truth that sets them free. A life rooted in Scripture is the first preparation for any ministry of freedom.
7. Walk in Humility
God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.
1 Peter 5:5-6 (KJV)
Pride is the soil in which the enemy works. Humility is the soil in which Christ is formed in us. The person who helps others find freedom must stay low before God, quick to repent, and slow to take credit.
8. Walk in Forgiveness
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:31-32 (KJV)
An unforgiving heart is a hard place from which to minister the freedom of Christ. We cannot lead someone into the forgiveness of God while we are harboring bitterness. Deal with your own heart first — forgive as you have been forgiven.
9. Depend Upon the Holy Spirit
I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
John 15:5 (KJV)
We do not set people free by our own strength or by a method. We depend on the Holy Spirit, who convicts, comforts, reveals, and empowers. Abide in Christ, pray in dependence, and trust the Spirit to do what only He can do.
10. Pray for Others in Love
Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2 (KJV)
The simplest and most powerful thing we can do for someone in bondage is to love them and to pray. Bearing another's burden in love is the law of Christ. Let your ministry begin and end in genuine love for the person, not in fascination with the battle.
Reflection
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Have I first counted the cost of following Jesus myself, before counting the cost of serving others?
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Am I seeking a ministry role, or seeking to become the kind of person Christ can use?
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Is there any unforgiveness or pride in my heart that would hinder my prayers for others?
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Am I depending on the Holy Spirit, or on a technique?
Practical Response
Begin where you are. Pray for the people God has already placed in your life — your family, your friends, your church. Grow in the Word. Confess sin quickly. Serve quietly. Let Christ form His character in you before you seek to help set anyone else free.
Prayer
Father, thank You that Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil and to set captives free. I count the cost of following Him — not as a special title, but as a disciple. Form Your character in me: humility, love, purity, and dependence on Your Holy Spirit. Teach me to know Your Word, to walk in forgiveness, and to pray for others with genuine love. Keep me from pride and from formulas. Let Jesus receive all the glory. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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